{"id":2285,"date":"2012-02-13T15:35:19","date_gmt":"2012-02-13T23:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rayivey.com\/wordpress\/?p=2285"},"modified":"2012-02-13T15:35:19","modified_gmt":"2012-02-13T23:35:19","slug":"my-second-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.rayivey.com\/wordpress\/my-second-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-follow synved-social-size-48 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-facebook nolightbox\" data-provider=\"facebook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Follow us on Facebook\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ray.ivey1\" style=\"font-size: 0px; width:48px;height:48px;margin:0;margin-bottom:5px;margin-right:5px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Facebook\" title=\"Follow us on Facebook\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-follow\" width=\"48\" height=\"48\" style=\"display: inline; width:48px;height:48px; 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&#8211; meaning I&#8217;m terrified of doctors,  doctor&#8217;s offices,  and hospitals.<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> This time the fear nearly killed me,  because when I finally went in,  my main cardiac artery was 97% blocked.\u00a0\u00a0 In other words,  I was a walking corpse.\u00a0 Later I learned that the type of lesion I had on my artery had a nickname in the cardiac healthcare community:\u00a0 The Widowmaker (http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Widow_maker).<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> Lucky for me,  Dr.  Kathy Magliato and her talented team at Cedars swooped in and saved my life.\u00a0 I&#8217;ll never forget the first thing she said to me as she leaned into my hospital bed and shook my hand:\u00a0 &#8220;Mr.  Ivey,  you have a beautiful heart.\u00a0 There is nothing wrong with your heart.&#8221;\u00a0 It was an odd,  but welcome thing to hear from the woman who was getting ready to cut me open and rewire said heart.<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> Dr.  Kathy was ridiculously kind and calming.\u00a0 She was way nicer than surgeons are supposed to be,  and I&#8217;ll always be grateful to her for that.<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> I as,  of course,  beside myself with terror.\u00a0 Lucky for me,  my friends and family immediately began taking care of me.\u00a0 Bonnie kept me calm while I was being admitted.\u00a0 My Dad flew in from Louisiana,  slept on a shelf in my hospital room the night before the surgery,  and took care of me for two weeks.\u00a0 My friends Tayler,  David,  Anita,  Ellen,  and others made sure I had visits.\u00a0 My cousin Sheryl was her usual championship self.\u00a0 Even my boss,  Erica,  visited me while I was in ICU.\u00a0 That&#8217;s hardcore.<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> Thanks to Dr.  Magliato,  I received a second chance at being alive.<\/p>\n<p> &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><div itemprop=\"aggregateRating\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"http:\/\/schema.org\/AggregateRating\">Average Rating: <span itemprop=\"ratingValue\">4.7<\/span> out of <span itemprop=\"bestRating\">5<\/span> based on <span itemprop=\"reviewCount\">245<\/span> user reviews.<\/span><\/div><\/p><p>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\">\n{\n  \"@context\": \"http:\/\/schema.org\/\",\n  \"@type\": \"Review\",\n\"datePublished\":\"May 25, 2026\",\n  \"itemReviewed\": {\n    \"@type\": \"Product\",\n    \"name\": \"Male Enhancement Pills\"\n  },\n  \"reviewRating\": {\n    \"@type\": \"Rating\",\n    \"ratingValue\": \"4.7\"\n  },\n\n  \"author\": {\n    \"@type\": \"Organization\",\n    \"name\": \"LegitScript\"\n  },\n  \"reviewBody\": \"Excellent quality at low price. 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