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Dr. Kathy Magliato: My Hero

Ten years ago today, I was admitted to Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Beverly Hills.  I had been ignoring increasingly serious chest pains for ten days.  I cannot defend this behavior, other than to tell you that I have actute “white coat hypertension” – meaning I’m terrified of doctors, doctor’s offices, and hospitals.

 

This time the fear nearly killed me, because when I finally went in, my main cardiac artery was 97% blocked.   In other words, I was a walking corpse.  Later I learned that the type of lesion I had on my artery had a nickname in the cardiac healthcare community:  The Widowmaker (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Widow_maker).

 

Lucky for me, Dr. Kathy Magliato and her talented team at Cedars swooped in and saved my life.  I’ll never forget the first thing she said to me as she leaned into my hospital bed and shook my hand:  “Mr. Ivey, you have a beautiful heart.  There is nothing wrong with your heart.”  It was an odd, but welcome thing to hear from the woman who was getting ready to cut me open and rewire said heart.

 

Dr. Kathy was ridiculously kind and calming.  She was way nicer than surgeons are supposed to be, and I’ll always be grateful to her for that.

 

I as, of course, beside myself with terror.  Lucky for me, my friends and family immediately began taking care of me.  Bonnie kept me calm while I was being admitted.  My Dad flew in from Louisiana, slept on a shelf in my hospital room the night before the surgery, and took care of me for two weeks.  My friends Tayler, David, Anita, Ellen, and others made sure I had visits.  My cousin Sheryl was her usual championship self.  Even my boss, Erica, visited me while I was in ICU.  That’s hardcore.

 

Thanks to Dr. Magliato, I received a second chance at being alive.

 

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“Macau” is that old Portuguese colony off the coast of China. “Macaw” is a New World parrot. These are two different words which are not pronounced the same.

Also:

Nassau is a county in Long Island, New York, a city in the Bahamas, and lots of other places. NASA is the National Aeronautics and Space Administration. These are two different words which are not pronounced the same.

Finally: “Novel” is not a synonym for “book” any more than “Chicken chimichanga” is a synonym for “food.”  You don’t get to casually refer to a book as a “novel” to make yourself sound more sophisticated unless the book is ACTUALLY a novel.

That is all.

Average Rating: 4.9 out of 5 based on 271 user reviews.

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CRANKY ALERT.  I’m all for positive thinking.  I’m all for pushing ourselves and encouraging each other to strive to be better. But I’m getting a little tired of the language I’m seeing a lot here on FB.  Language like “only you limit what… you can achieve, ” or “you can be anything you dream.” Well, actually, you can’t.  I can dream a lot of things that can never happen.  I can make myself better, naturally (EVEN better).
Alex Carneiro

But I can’t make myself twenty years old.  I can’t make myself genetically athletic.  I can’t make myself NOT have a double bypass in my past.  The sky is NOT the limit.  We all have limits.  To tell people they don’t is to set them up for feelings of shame when their dreams do not come true. No matter HOW hard I try, or believe, or strive, or work, I cannot look like Alexandre Marx Carneiro here.  Few people can.  We can all get better, but we CANNOT be *anything* we dream.  That is all.

Average Rating: 4.4 out of 5 based on 217 user reviews.

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