
Ten years ago today, I was admitted to Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Beverly Hills. I had been ignoring increasingly serious chest pains for ten days. I cannot defend this behavior, other than to tell you that I have actute “white coat hypertension” – meaning I’m terrified of doctors, doctor’s offices, and hospitals.
This time the fear nearly killed me, because when I finally went in, my main cardiac artery was 97% blocked. In other words, I was a walking corpse. Later I learned that the type of lesion I had on my artery had a nickname in the cardiac healthcare community: The Widowmaker (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Widow_maker).
Lucky for me, Dr. Kathy Magliato and her talented team at Cedars swooped in and saved my life. I’ll never forget the first thing she said to me as she leaned into my hospital bed and shook my hand: “Mr. Ivey, you have a beautiful heart. There is nothing wrong with your heart.” It was an odd, but welcome thing to hear from the woman who was getting ready to cut me open and rewire said heart.
Dr. Kathy was ridiculously kind and calming. She was way nicer than surgeons are supposed to be, and I’ll always be grateful to her for that.
I as, of course, beside myself with terror. Lucky for me, my friends and family immediately began taking care of me. Bonnie kept me calm while I was being admitted. My Dad flew in from Louisiana, slept on a shelf in my hospital room the night before the surgery, and took care of me for two weeks. My friends Tayler, David, Anita, Ellen, and others made sure I had visits. My cousin Sheryl was her usual championship self. Even my boss, Erica, visited me while I was in ICU. That’s hardcore.
Thanks to Dr. Magliato, I received a second chance at being alive.
So glad. Love you.
Happy 2nd Birthday Ray!
Thanks, Sandra and David!